If there's one thing I dislike the most must be confrontation. I don't like telling people what's wrong or right. They have brain and they certainly put a good use to it. Whenever I tell people something it's because I already weighed pro and cons and think the best way to deliver it.

Recently, I was being honest to B and however this A person does not agree with the way I deliver it. I apologized to A but I told A this is the way I do it and I am sorry if you don't agree with it. If you don't agree with me then you could do it in your own way. And this A person said back to me." since you're already said it to B then it makes no sense for me to say it again" I was angry at A. You reprimanded me on the way I spoke to B but you don't have the guts to say it yourself. Then who are you to say the way I do things is wrong when you yourself has no courage to say it yourself.

All I wanted to do is get my message across. I think I did even if B person deny what he does. I don't expect B person to admit it. When we did something wrong it isn't unusual for us to deny but then silently we admit our own fault and promised to be a better person. I am no authority officer and I don't like to enforce rule on other person. I don't like to have my friends be treated like a kid or be embarrassed. It is not my style.

All I am saying is whatever I said I meant it. If I did say something on whatever it's because it was really imminent for me to say. I am direct and you may consider it is distasteful but when I am being honest to a person it's because I think it's important not to hide behind subtlety and because I treasure that person. If I don't give a damn I wouldn't bother to tell a person anything.

I don't leash my anger that often. But when I did it's because you have over step that boundary. I find it hard to forgive people. That is my weakness. Forgiveness to me is very expensive.The anger subside over time but the grudge doesn't.It doesn't go away with time.