venting out

Okay, I think I'm one of those people who just love sharing gossips with my very close friends.It's fun but none of it I think were taken seriously. Gossips is only supposed to be taken at face value and it's just a way of us dishing our psychology 101 theories. Yes I know bitching is a bad thing. I feel bad whenever I do it.

So as we all know, Eid Adha is this weekend... and so since the last time my mom saw her grandchildren was in October when we sent off my brother to airport, my mom was inviting my SIL with her children to celebrate with us. Yeah we don't celebrate Eid Adha that much but my mom was simply using that reason to see her grandchildren. But my SIL has to be an absolute bitch about it when everytime my sister called her to ask does she want to come back,if so my dad could pick her up since she neither have a car nor can drive currently.

You know when somebody voice turn irritable right? They have this kind of dissatisfaction voice quality. She has been living in her uncle home for the past week. I feel sorry for my niece and nephews because they don't have the word "STABILITY" in their life at all. I think honestly, she just enjoy my brother money and spending it like water while my brother is slaving off over hot sun in Dubai. I mean my brother is soon 36. His birthday is the end of this month. How much longer can he work in that business.It's tough okay managing construction site.

I have this bad thought, that oh well maybe my brother should just divorce her but the problem is my brother in the first place has made the wrong choice.His type is like that,girl from kampung, don't work and will raise sort of traditional family environment. This is the type that most guys want. Let me tell you first hand. If you think it like that you are sorely wrong! She has insecurity and when people don't have exposure they have this very sort of closed minded view.Everything is threathening. So even if my brother divorce, it wouldn't solve a thing.

But yes I feel sorry for my neph and niece.Now my sisters,dad and I just get tired with all this drama. We have long decided to cut off our communication with her. Yes we know we're punishing the kids at the same time but till my brother come back there's nothing more we can do. We feel sorry for mommy when she wants so badly to see her grandchildren. But in my family, there's 2 block..one is the emotionless and couldn't care less which is us girls and our dad. My brother and my mom belong to the more sensitive block.

Okay, so I feel better now that I've let it out.Phewwwww.......